This message was written on a London Underground noticeboard in a tube station in the capital of Great Britain. Kindness is truly one of the greatest gifts you can give to each other. I have witnessed many random acts of kindness in Redding, California. From people donating to students who needed financial support to a pastor collecting shoes, slippers, toothpaste, soap and other essential items for the homeless. They say that a random act of kindness is a nonpremeditated, inconsistent action designed to offer kindness towards the outside world. ‘ These are truly moments of compassion.
Even successful entrepreneurs like Great Britain’s Richard Branson, focus on kindness and compassion, when it comes to treating their employees. It is seen as a leadership strength. I do believe a leadership shift happens when you show kindness and compassion – whether it is in your own home, in the local community or in the corporate business sector. In 1992, I was on a plane with my family to Colombo, Sri Lanka and who should be on board but Richard Branson and his family, accompanying them were Richard Branson’s father and mother who were flying to the island on a business/holiday trip. We got talking on board, he was very accessible, he came across as a very kind person. Here are Richard Branson’s tips for some simple, random acts of kindness:
“Kindness is such an important characteristic – so we should all work on being more friendly, generous and considerate. To help you do this, this year I challenge you to complete the 15 random acts of kindness as listed below. I will be carrying them out myself, too. The more people smile, the more the world will smile. “
1. Tell a joke
2. Call a friend or a relative
3. Give a compliment to a stranger
4. Make up with anyone you’ve fallen out with (even if you feel it’s their fault)
5. Give someone a hug
6. Leave a happy note for someone to find
7. Email an old teacher who has made a difference in your life
8. Hand-write someone a letter, and mail it
9. Smile at someone on the street, just because
10. Talk to the shy person who’s sitting by themselves at a party
11. Help a parent with their baby stroller
12. Help someone struggling with heavy bags
13. Stop to talk to a homeless person
14. Give up your seat to someone on the bus or train
15. Give someone a book you think they’d like.
Growing up in Colombo, Ceylon (now Sri Lanka), I was blessed to have a grandfather who showed the love of Christ to the poorest of the poor – the Rodi community in Sri Lanka – there were those who did not want to know them or help them as they were deemed almost inferior because of their caste – my Grandfather (who was a Christian priest), went and ministered to them and found them food, clothing and shelter – even finding the Rodi employment in Colombo and housing them on church property in Colombo.
I also remember a moment of brotherly love during my teenage years -my younger brother was sleeping on a mat, by my bedside, holding my hand at night time, when I was nearly dying of typhoid. I was in agony, my stomach was on fire, coupled with high fever of a 105 degrees F. Even though I wasn’t truly a Christian, I remember crying out: “Jesus, please heal me,’ because I was in so much pain. I so felt the love of my younger teenage brother – it was an act of compassion. That song ‘He ain’t heavy, he’s my brother,’ comes to mind. He was there by my bedside during a very tough time for me – it was very much a life and death situation – I thank God that as a result of progressive healing, I recovered after 8 months in bed – my weight was down to 90 lbs. It was an absolute miracle that I survived from typhoid and a relapse.
The Bible has many references on kindness. Micah chapter Chapter 6 verse 8 says: ‘ He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God? ‘ And then again in Colossians Chapter 3 verses 12-13: ‘Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.’ Compassion and kindness feature prominently in Christian teaching. Jesus himself was moved by compassion and healed the sick, gave sight to the blind, made the lame walk and raised the dead according to the New Testament.
I am reminded of the scene from the epic film ‘Ben Hur, ‘ directed by William Wyler and released in 1959. There is a scene in the film when Judah Ben Hur (Charlton Heston) in desperation, pleads for water, from the people of the village – however, the order had been given by the Romans that he was to have no water. This scene so reflects the compassion of Jesus and is one of the most empowering scenes in the film – Jesus comes to Ben Hur and gives him water to drink.
Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” – John 4:13, 14
Here’s a television advertisement from Thailand that focuses on a touch of humanity:
Here’s another inspirational video on youtube with the hashtag #rekindlekindness
You make the world a better place by showing kindness to others and going that extra mile to help someone.
We took our son to Long Beach, California – we felt he deserved a holiday at Christmas. He is on the autism spectrum and life can be a struggle for us and for him. We checked into a hotel at Long Beach. One morning our son went up to get some breakfast. For a moment I got rather worried, I saw this businessman walk up to my son – I thought there was an incident happening before my eyes. As I was getting up from my chair, I noticed this man speaking very kindly to him and as usual our son wasn’t giving him any eye contact!
This businessman was talking to him for a while. He came to our table and said ‘your son was helping me choose my breakfast.’ He had possibly realised that our son had autism and made a deliberate choice to engage him in conversation. The kindness of a stranger to our precious son. I got up and went over to him and thanked him for that random act of kindness. I said the more people engage with him in conversation the better it is for him in terms of social interaction and communication. His parting words to me were:”God bless you, Merry Christmas.” God bless you too, whoever you are, for being incredibly kind to our son in Long Beach, California.
Quote on Richard Branson and his 15 random acts of kindness, courtesy of the Virgin website: https://www.virgin.com/richard-branson/importance-kindness
Photograph courtesy of Pexels and Long Beach Council.