Are you a Compassionate Leader?

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Are you a compassionate leader? 

The Harvard Business Review has come up with an assessment – you answer the questions online and submit them and you will receive a report. Please click on the link below.

Compassion has become increasingly recognised as a foundational aspect of leadership. One study from 2012 found that compassionate leaders appear stronger and have more engaged followers. Other studies have found that organisations with more compassionate leaders have better collaboration, lower turnover, and employees who are more trusting, more connected to each other, and more committed to the company. When we surveyed more than 1,000 leaders from 800 organisations, 91% of them said compassion is very important for their leadership and 80% said they would like to enhance their compassion but do not know how.

What do we mean by compassion? It is the intent to contribute to the happiness and well-being of others. A compassionate leader has a genuine interest in seeing their people not just perform and increase profits but thrive. But this doesn’t mean “being soft” or trying to please people by giving them what they want; rather, it requires giving people what they need, such as tough feedback. Compassionate leadership requires having wisdom about how to lead for the greater good and for the long term. The good news is that compassionate leadership can be learned. With simple practices we can become more compassionate and bring more wisdom to our leadership. This assessment will help you understand how wisely compassionate you are. Answer each question honestly. After you take the assessment, you will get a report outlining where you can improve, along with practical tips for becoming a more compassionate leader.

Please submit your questions to the answers for the assessment on the link of the Harvard Business Review.

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The Assessment is courtesy of the Harvard Business Review.


Compassionate Bosses have an advantage

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Compassionate Bosses have an advantage says the Daily Telegraph, examining the England Football Manager (2019) Gareth Southgate’s example for the business benefits of Compassionate Leadership.

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To read the Jon Card’s article in the Daily Telegraph, please click on the link below:

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/connect/small-business/how-to-create-gareth-southgate-team-management/

 

Photograph of Gareth Southgate courtesy of Wikipedia and Кирилл Венедиктов – This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unportedlicense.

Article courtesy of the Daily Telegraph newspaper.

A moment of compassion on a battlefield during the Christmas Truce of 1914

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It was 1914. The British Army and the German Army were involved in hand to hand combat near Ypres during Wold War I.  It was brutal. Troops on both side were killed or injured in huge numbers. It was one of the deadliest conflicts in human history. Over 40 million military personnel and civilians perished in World War I.  In the month of December 1914, the thoughts of the soldiers went back to their loved ones as it was getting nearer to Christmas, the soldiers frequently sang Christmas Carols in the trenches. Sir Edward Hamilton Westrow Hulse, 7th Baronet and a British Army Officer with the Scots Guards wrote detailed accounts of life in the trenches during World War I. Describing what happened in December, Sir Edward wrote that he was organising a concert party on Christmas Day which would “give the enemy every conceivable form of song in harmony” in response to frequent choruses of  German soldiers singing Deutschland Uber Alles. 

Soldiers on both sides were celebrating the birth of a Saviour, Jesus Christ. What an irony that they were celebrating the birth of the Prince of Peace and here they were at war fighting each other on the Western Front. There were ‘unofficial cessations’ of hostilities, particularly during Christmas. Both sides had Christmas trees in the trenches, lit candles and sang Carols.

Then came moments of unimaginable compassion – sadly they were only moments. Captain Robert Patrick Miles who was with the Royal Irish Rifles recalled that moment of compassion in a letter: ” Friday (Christmas Day). We are having the most extraordinary Christmas Day imaginable. A sort of unarranged and quite unauthorized but perfectly understood and scrupulously observed truce exists between us and our friends in front. The funny thing is it only seems to exist in this part of the battle line – on our right and left we can all hear them firing away as cheerfully as ever. The thing started last night – a bitter cold night, with white frost – soon after dusk when the Germans started shouting ‘Merry Christmas, Englishmen’ to us. Of course our fellows shouted back and presently large numbers of both sides had left their trenches, unarmed, and met in the debatable, shot-riddled, no man’s land between the lines. Here the agreement – all on their own – came to be made that we should not fire at each other until after midnight tonight. The men were all fraternising in the middle (we naturally did not allow them too close to our line) and swapped cigarettes and lies in the utmost good fellowship. Not a shot was fired all night. “

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Writing about the German soldiers Captain Miles noted: “They are distinctly bored with the war. In fact, one of them wanted to know what on earth we were doing here fighting them.”

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Then came the football matches on Christmas Day. Football and Compassion on a field of war! Gerard deGroot of the Telegraph newspaper in the United Kingdom wrote: “What a sight; little groups of Germans and British extending along the length of our front,” wrote Corporal John Ferguson of the Seaforth Highlanders. “We were laughing and chatting to men whom only a few hours before we were trying to kill. Fraternisation led inevitably to football. Men who could not otherwise communicate shared a common language in the game. “After a short while somebody punted across a football,” one subaltern recalled. “The ball landed amongst the Germans and they immediately kicked it back at our men … it was a melêe. It wasn’t a question of 10-a-side, it was a question of 70 Germans against 50 Englishmen.” That scenario was repeated all along the line. The locations of these matches remain obscure, in part because few soldiers subsequently admitted taking part.

On January 1 1915, an anonymous major wrote to The Times that an English regiment “had a football match with the Saxons, who beat them 3-2”. That score echoes through the accounts. Yet since the stories originate from various parts of the front, this suggests either incredible consistency in the results, or a remarkable willingness to remember the event in exactly the same way. Equally possible, all recollections might relate to a single mythical encounter that never actually took place. In truth, it matters not if a match ending 3-2 actually occurred, since myths are often more powerful than facts. The “match” is universally celebrated, even by the English who might otherwise prefer to forget another defeat to the Germans. At least it did not end in penalties.

Playing football rudely exposed the contrived nature of wartime animosity. For that reason, it was quickly quashed. Gustav Riebensahm, an officer in the 2nd Westphalian regiment, immediately complained to his commanders that “the whole thing has become ridiculous and must be stopped”. Near Ypres, a corporal named Adolf Hitler voiced the view that fraternisation “should not be allowed”. General Sir Horace Smith-Dorrien echoed that sentiment, reminding his subordinate commanders that “Friendly intercourse with the enemy … [is] absolutely prohibited.” An even sterner directive was issued by the 1st Army commander, General Douglas Haig, who warned that soldiers caught fraternising could face a firing squad.

In truth, there was never any danger that goodwill would endure. Everyone accepted that the moment of compassion was just that – a moment. At 8:30 on Boxing Day morning, Stockwell fired three shots in the air, then hoisted a flag with “Merry Christmas” on it. The German captain appeared on the parapet, bowed and fired two shots in reply. “The War was on again,” wrote Stockwell. The guns resumed their murderous cacophony; slaughter resumed. The footballs were put away, ” said Gerard deGroot.

It was a sad moment of humanity and compassion on a battlefield. A brief lull in the fighting and they then resumed hostilities after Boxing Day. Many who met on the field of war to exchange gifts and play football, perished afterwards in a hail of bullets and gunfire.

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Sainsburys actually produced a film for Christmas recalling the story of the Christmas Truce of December 2014 and the football match between the British and German armies.

Here are some amazing photographs from 1914 of British and German solders meeting together during the Christmas Truce.

 

Photographs courtesy of Wikipedia and Pixaby

Excerpt from an article by Gerard deGroot in the Telegraph newspaper in London titled: ‘The Truth about the Christmas Day Match.” https://www.telegraph.co.uk/history/world-war-one/11310353/The-truth-about-the-Christmas-Day-football-match.html

Youtube clips from the Sainsbury’s advertisement on the Christmas Truce and the football match and genuine photographs from 1914 from Yesterday Today.

Showing compassion to your enemies

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The quote attributed to Sir Winston Churchill is an interesting one. They say he may not have said it, however it does provoke discussion about having enemies. If you take a stand on an issue, there will be those who will try to bring you down. Churchill had many enemies on the battlefield, in the British parliament and even in his own cabinet. Winston Churchill had a bulldog spirit he did have low moments in his life but he refused to give up and give in – he famously said ‘never, never, never give up,’ and another quote attributed to Britain’s war time Prime Minister: ‘If you are going through hell, keep going!’ He always took the fight to the enemy. Allen Packwood of the Churchill Archives at the University of Cambridge in the United Kingdom noted:

“Churchill led from the front in his willingness to take real risks to implement an aggressive policy, he was prepared to denude Britain of armour, and to transport it by the quicker, but more hazardous, Mediterranean route. Where he differed from those around him was in the intensity of his desire to engage the enemy. For him it was never just about defence. Victory depended on taking the fight to the enemy on the ground.  “

We come across people who try to bring us down, make us stumble and fall – sometimes even through entrapment. An enemy might violate your fundamental human rights, bring pain and distress to your friends and family, even involve your own children, smear you behind your back, go to great lengths to bring you down, some brazenly use bribery and corruption. There are those who say the only way to stop your enemy is take the fight to them, meet fire with fire, hire lawyers and sue them for compensation. The media is awash with indictments before grand juries, court injunctions, in the United States – in the United Kingdom a few years ago, a huge phone hacking, email and voice mail hacking scandal even brought down a British newspaper who were forced to close down, with millions given out in compensation to people who had been illegally and unlawfully hacked. There are times whenever people resort to evil, it has a ‘boomerang effect,’ however much you try to do things behind your victims back and think you can get away with it – what goes around, comes around. No one is above the law.

The Scriptures talk about a Day of Reckoning – Judgement Day – Ecclesiastes 12:14 says: “for God will bring every deed into judgement, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil. ” Romans Chapter 2 verse 16 talks about that final day: This will take place on the day when God judges people’s secrets through Jesus Christ, as my gospel declares.” Your enemy would do well to digest Romans Chapter 2!

Psalm 23 reveals that ‘he prepares a table in the presence of my enemies.’ It doesn’t say ‘he prepares a table in the absence of my enemies.’ This is the ultimate rebuke to your enemies – they will have to stand and watch from the very edges of society as you eat in the King’s presence, you will enjoy the favour of the Lord and your enemies will not be able to do one thing about it.

So why did Jesus have to take on so much suffering at the hands of his enemies? Here’s a view from the gotquestions.org website: “Jesus suffered severely throughout His trials, torture, and crucifixion (Matthew 27Mark 15Luke 23John 19). His suffering was physicalIsaiah 52:14 declares, “There were many who were appalled at Him—His appearance was so disfigured beyond that of any man and his form marred beyond human likeness.” His suffering was emotional: “All the disciples deserted him and fled” (Matthew 26:56). His suffering was spiritual: “God made him who had no sin to be sin for us” (2 Corinthians 5:21). Jesus had the weight of the sins of the entire world on Him (1 John 2:2). It was sin that caused Jesus to cry out, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46). Jesus’ brutal physical suffering was augmented by His having to bear the guilt of our sins and die to pay our penalty (Romans 5:8).

Isaiah predicted Jesus’ suffering: “He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, and familiar with suffering. Like one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not. But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed” (Isaiah 53:35). This passage specifies the reason for Jesus’ suffering: “for our transgressions,” for our healing, and to bring us peace.

Jesus told His disciples that His suffering was certain: “The Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law, and he must be killed and on the third day be raised to life” (Luke 9:22; cf. 17:25). Note the word must—He must suffer, and He must be killed. The suffering of Christ was God’s plan for the salvation of the world. “

So what did Jesus do when he was faced with an onslaught from enemies all around him? He forgave. That was the simple message – forgive. Did he have lawyers at his trial, were there character witnesses to vouch for him – absolutely none. The enemies of Jesus targeted the weakest link in his inner circle. Who was the weakest link? Judas. The keeper of the purse. What was his weakness? The love of money. He is called a thief in John Chapter 12 verse 6:  “He did not say this because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; as keeper of the money bag, he used to help himself to what was put into it. ” How did they persuade him to betray Jesus? They bribed him, used corruption, gave him 30 pieces of silver. Give us a sign, kiss him on the cheek they said. Peter denied him three times before the cock crowed thrice. The disciples fled. Jesus was tortured, his face disfigured, a crown of thorns placed brutally on his head, he was physically and verbally abused, spat upon, whipped, battered, bruised, dehydrated, exhausted. And yet he forgave. Great leaders show mercy.

Peter asked Jesus about forgiveness: Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” (Matthew: Chapter 18, verses 21-22). In that chapter Jesus teaches us that we are to forgive our brother from our heart. Now learning to forgive can be very hard. How can you forgive someone who has been trying to destroy you and your family – out of sheer spite, hatred, anger, jealousy and has, say, tried to harm your children? Jesus on the cross forgave the robber, forgave all those who had committed those terrible crimes against him – even though it did not excuse their actions.  Jesus taught, “If you forgive others their transgressions, your heavenly Father will forgive you.” (Matthew: Chapter 6:14). Even after the Resurrection, Jesus told his disciples: “Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them.” (John Chapter 20: verses 22, 23). Jesus had  a such a deep forgiveness ministry. 

The life, the death, the resurrection, the teachings and the forgiveness ministry of Jesus has resonated with so many down the centuries. The Guardian newspaper of Great Britain noted:” If you think religion belongs to the past and we live in a new age of reason, you need to check out the facts: 84% of the world’s population identifies with a religious group. Members of this demographic are generally younger and produce more children than those who have no religious affiliation, so the world is getting more religious, not less – although there are significant geographical variations. According to 2015 figures, Christians form the biggest religious group by some margin, with 2.3 billion adherents or 31.2% of the total world population of 7.3 billion.”

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Martin Luther King famously said: ‘We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.’

Richard Branson recently shared on social media the words of a lady from Igniting Change who said: ‘People who are inflicting the most pain (on others) are in the most pain themselves.’ These people who do you wrong could be in terrible torment within themselves. Pray for your enemies, forgive them and bless them, their children and their children’s children.

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Even from a personal perspective, there was a time in my life when I had serious disagreements with my father. It caused so much bitterness inside me. I just didn’t want to talk to him. Then came the realisation that life was too short, God was asking me to forgive him and I needed to seek forgiveness too. So I went and met him, I told him how much I loved him and said: ‘Father, forgive me.’ There was a radical transformation in that precious moment, between a Father and a Son.

My father was 75 years old at the time. After that incredible breakthrough in our relationship, whenever I telephoned him to say I coming to visit him, he would walk up the road and stay near some bollards, waiting for me. The passage of time had mellowed him. When he saw me, he put his arms around me and hugged me, tears rolling down our faces. This was unconditional love. Later that year, my father passed away and I was glad there had been a breakthrough – I was able to celebrate his life at a service of thanksgiving and thank God for that act of forgiveness. When I think of him now I think of him with so much love – the bitterness, the anger has melted away.

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He said love your enemies – here is a clip from Mel Gibson’s ‘The Passion of the Christ.”  When you forgive you don’t keep any bitterness, hatred, anger inside of you. It doesn’t eat into your soul,  crippling your mind and your heart. Forgiveness brings release, freedom. You let go of the angst, that heavy burden will be lifted from you. It will set you free from the shackles of a bitter heart. Forgiveness is a very powerful tool and it releases God’s favour and blessings.

Ivan Corea

 

Quotations from the Bible from the New International Version.

Reference to Christ’s suffering courtesy of  gotquestions.org

Reference from the Guardian article:”Religion: why faith is becoming more and more popular.” Published in August 2018.

Clips from YouTube courtesy of the Passion of the Christ film.

Photograph of Winston Churchill taken from a portrait at his residence in Chartwell, Kent in the United Kingdom.
Photographs courtesy of Pexels and Pixabay.

 

 

 

Jesus and the Compassionate Good Samaritan

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Great leaders are also great storytellers. They have the ability to use the power and the skills of storytelling to inspire and motivate people – whether it is in a family setting, a company, an organisation, or in their community. My mind goes back to my salad days when I was in secondary school in Colombo, in what was known as Ceylon, (now Sri Lanka). We had this charismatic Art teacher – he had a gifting for great story telling, quite apart from teaching us art. He would stride into the classroom, perch himself on the teacher’s desk and he would start his stories – many of them from history and folk tales – we were spellbound. He had our undivided attention. As students we were so eager, waiting in anticipation of his yarns. “Tell us a story Sir!” we would cry out as we engaged in art and creativity. Art is a form of storytelling – it seemed to go well with each other, in the context of the classroom. It was stretching our imagination. It is the hallmark of a gifted and inspirational teacher that you remember their stories and discussions, decades after you have left school.

The New York Times observed: “Storytelling is one of the oldest devices of communicating. Its hand-me-down perpetuation suffered somewhat during the age of writing (which allowed you to look it up if you forgot it) and has been more severely threatened with the advent of the electronic era, which relieves you of the effort of transmitting anything to newer generations.”

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Jesus was a master storyteller. He was an effective, compassionate, leader, an expert in the art of communication. He crafted engaging stories – breaking down what could have been complex theology into bite size gems that made people understand the meaning behind the story. Companies in today’s corporate world also use storytelling. Nike’s senior executives are also designated corporate storytellers – using storytelling to their advantage. Their advertisements feature such stories to engage the audience – with a powerful message behind it.

Jesus used parables to teach important lessons – they say a parable is a succinct, didactic story, in prose or verse that illustrates one or more instructive lessons or principles. It differs from a fable in that fables employ animals, plants, inanimate objects, or forces of nature as characters, whereas parables have human characters. A parable is a type of analogy. The word ‘parable’ means a placing side by side for the sake of comparison. It was used by Jesus to convey spiritual truth. His parables always had a clear cut spiritual message.

I can just imagine Jesus walking on a beach or striding into the very heart of the community,  sitting on a chair or a rock or by the village well, stretching out his hands and saying: ‘I want to tell you a story.’ Crowds came to listen to him. He explained the stories in a way that people understood them.

Jesus wanted to teach people about love, mercy and compassion. He chose the main character in the parable of the Good Samaritan as someone of another race and culture who was detested by the Jewish community. They sometimes threw stones at these people. The Samaritans lived in Northern Israel. Samaria was located between Galilee in the north and Judea in the south. They were racially mixed, however they were despised by the Jews who did not see them as part of mainstream Judaism. The Samaritans only accepted the first 5 books of the Bible as canonical and they did not go to the temple on Mount Zion in Jerusalem but went to the temple on Mount Gerazim. Jewish people did not want to contaminate themselves, so they did not travel through Samaria if they wanted to get to Galilee from Judea – they took an even longer route, crossing the river Jordan, totally by passing Samaria. On the other side of the coin the Samaritans destested the Jews. The feelings were mutual.

Jesus just broke through the racism, the hate, anger, bitterness, jealousy and all the barriers placed before him. He actually passed through Samaria instead of avoiding all contact with Samaritans. He spoke to the Samaritan woman at the well – something unheard of in his day. When Jesus was asked ‘who is my neighbour,’ he shared with the crowds one of the most compassionate stories ever told.

The principle character of the parable was a Samaritan. Jesus wanted to show a new and living way, of loving your neighbour as yourself. Your neighbour might be of another race, colour or creed. Jesus preached equality under God. Samaritans and Jews were absolutely equal in His sight. They were not second class citizens. All are precious in His sight.

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So here is the parable from Luke Chapter 10: verses 25-37:

On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?” He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’a]”>[a]; and, ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’b]”>[b]

“You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.” But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbour?”

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In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead.  A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he travelled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’

“Which of these three do you think was a neighbour to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?” The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.” Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”

This was compassion in action. The content and the message behind the ‘Parable of the Good Samaritan,’ is as relevant today, within the context of today’s society, as it was back then, in the time of Jesus.

Our son who is on the autism spectrum, still loves to watch the superb cartoon from ‘Miracle Maker,’ the film released in the year 2000.’ Quite often he would watch it several times in a month – he just loves this film – seen through the eyes of Tamar, the terminally ill daughter of Jairus, a priest in Capernaum.

Here is a modern version of the parable:

Here are 7 lessons we can learn from the compassionate Good Samaritan:

  1. Compassion comes from the heart. It’s not something that is an abstract idea. It is an action that comes from within your heart.
  2. Do not pass by on the other side – when you see a need, try to respond with your heart. I remember the time our son had a meltdown in the cinema because the place was absolutely full and the seat that he normally sits on had been taken. He was distraught. There was a kind lady who came up to my wife and I and asked us: “Is there anything I can do to help?” She did not walk by on the other side. It turned out that she knew exactly what we were going through because she was working with children with autism. We were so grateful for that act of kindness.
  3. Compassion is a specific action. Let your heart be right. Reach out to those who are in real need.
  4. Be a neighbour. In this parable, the Samaritan was the neighbour. He loved his neighbour as himself.
  5. Compassion is what you see. When the Samaritan came across the Jewish person mugged and left for dead he saw and he acted.
  6. Stop and think – does this person need help? I am as guilty as anyone else when I have seen homeless people and looked straight ahead and carried on regardless.
  7. Do. Compassion is something that you do and how you do it. The Good Samaritan not only saw the man lying there on the road, he was galvanised into action. He took a risk to stop and help this man.

Jesus always acted with compassion, with loving kindness – he told the expert in the law ‘go and do likewise.’ The teaching here is very clear – we should be showing compassion to others.

Ivan Corea

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The Parable of the Good Samaritan is from the New International Version.

The cartoon is courtesy of the Miracle Maker film and the modern version of the parable is courtesy of modernparable.com

The pictures are courtesy of http://www.freebibleimages.org/illustrations/good-samaritan/ and Pixabay.

Excerpt, courtesy of  The New York Times article on  ‘Storytelling as an art form,’ (3rd February 1988).

 

 

The bond of love and compassion between a Father and a Son

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This will bring tears to your eyes. The bond of love and compassion between a Father and a Son. Matt Cobrink who is 53 years old and has Down Syndrome had flown to New York from Los Angeles, leaving his home for the first time in his life to meet his favorite football player Aaron Judge of the New York Yankees. On his return he met his father 88 year old Malcolm at the airport. It was a touching moment of such compassion when he hugs and kisses his father. He had clearly missed him after a week in New York.

 

Youtube clip and photograph courtesy of Showbiz News TV

How the Carr Fire in Northern California brought out the best in people from the community

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One of the greatest strengths of the American people is that when tragedy strikes, whole communities rise up and help one another, in the spirit of “loving their neighbour as themselves”, showing compassion and a willingness to help those who are in trouble. I won’t forget the image of a local pastor, chest deep in water, pulling a boat with a rope and going house to house to rescue people who were trapped inside their homes when flood waters ravaged Houston, in Texas.

In 2016, a British newspaper, the ‘Independent,’ said this about the people of the United States: “America has been named as the world’s most generous nation in the world, where it’s citizens give the most to charity, according to a new report.” The report was released by the Charities Aid Foundation (CAF). Charitable giving by individuals as a percentage of GDP in America was recorded at 1.44%, in New Zealand it was 0.79%, in Canada at 77% and the United Kingdom came fourth globally at 0.54%.

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That same year, confirmation of these statistics came from the new Almanac of American Philanthropy found that Americans out donated both Great Britain and Canada two-to-one and nations like Italy and Germany by two-to-one. What’s more, more than half of every single income class except those earning less than $25,000 donate to charity, according to the survey. Americans give – locally, nationally and internationally. They are doers of the word. According to Bible Study.com: “ The Lord Jesus expects and requires us to give. Jesus said to His disciples, “when you give” not “if you give” (Matthew 6:2)! Hence, Christian giving is not optional, but rather essential. We often hear folks say: “in the Old Testament they had to give, but not in the New – now we only give if we want to.” This is clearly not Jesus’ teaching. He expected all His followers to be givers. Christians will give. ” I think the spirit of giving and the spirit of compassion is reflected in the statistic that the United States of America is one of the most generous countries in the world. Quite simply, the people of America give.

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I was a first hand  witness to this in the summer of 2018. We were back in London, in the United Kingdom when the Carr Fire broke out. BBC News and Sky News had sent television crews to the City of Redding – the news story topped their bulletins and we saw how the Carr Fire spread quickly. The Carr Fire was one of the largest fires in Northern California in 2018, burning 229,651 acres of land, destroying 1,604 structures of which 1,077 were homes, killing several people include two firefighters and little children. It was heart breaking. The fire devastated parts of Redding, causing 38,000 people to be evacuated.

As the fire raged, there was a wave of prayer from around the globe for the City of Redding. God TV sent a worldwide message in July 2018:

“We at GOD TV stand with our brothers and sisters at Bethel Church in intercession and we ask you to do the same.

PRAYER TARGETS:

  • Peace to California and to those near fire.
  • Wisdom and safety for firefighters and officials.
  • Rain and the ceasing of wind, the smoke to clear for full visibility, no lightning strikes.
  • Total and complete containment. “

“God, we invite You to come and bring healing and divine intervention to this situation, and to the fires burning throughout California. You are faithful, and You are sovereign over the weather. Bring restoring rains, and protect this land.”

We made our way back into Redding, the skies were thick with smoke from the Carr Fire. We had to wear masks. The people of Redding were galvanised into action. Bethel Church is the largest church in the City of Redding. Initially they were asked not to open their doors by the Redding Fire Department because there was only one road that led to the church and there was no escape route in case the fire reached the church.

However when the church was given the green light by the Fire Department partnering with the Salvation Army in Redding, Bethel Church became a distribution centre helping and supporting all those who were devastated by the fire. The community responded with love – churches in Redding, voluntary organisations, others provided counselling services and a whole army of volunteers helped at the church, giving thousands of free meals, I saw a Safeway refrigeration truck for the food and people reached out by giving money. Everything was distributed to those who had lost all their possessions from water bottles to pillows. This was partnership working at its best.

There were ministry teams praying in the Sanctuary with people who had come to seek emotional support. They were in tears. This was compassion in action to those who were suffering. The senior pastors at Bethel Church wrote to churches around the United States and across the world. Millions of US dollars started coming in. Churches around the world just gave in love. Bethel Church was able to give $1,000 to every family who had lost their home and fund the whole outreach to people affected by the Carr Fire. This was truly deep compassion for their community and I was a witness to all of this in Redding.

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Some gave with their lives, the highest sacrifice to their local community. Two fire fighters were killed in the blaze. A friend of mine and I attended the funeral service of Redding Fire Inspector, Jeremy Stoke, held at the Civic Auditorium. The whole community came together, to pay their respects. It was a very dignified occasion. The Redding Fire Department Chief Chaplain led the service and the ushers were all chaplains who were there to celebrate the life of Jeremy Stoke who paid the ultimate sacrifice in order to save others. It was very moving. The Carr Fire in Redding brought out the best in people. Many gave much needed funds to those who were suffering. Incidentally, according to GoFundMe in their report on the most generous US cities in the nation, based on donations per capita, the City of Redding came fourth – in the Top Ten. I can well believe that. Compassion to action.

As 2018 closes let’s re-visit that prayer from God TV. The rains came and peace has come down over the city. The firefighters are safe. The skies are clear. There was total containment of not one but two fires in Northern California. In the Scriptures,  Zachariah, Chapter 13:verse 9 says this: “They will call on My name, And I will answer them; I will say, ‘They are My people,’ And they will say, ‘The LORD is my God.’

Ivan Corea

 

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Compassionate Leadership according to Richard Branson

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Now here’s a quote from Richard Branson which fits in so well with Compassionate Leadership. Richard Branson is one of Great Britain’s most successful businessmen.

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7 inspiring traits of Compassionate Leadership

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“The driving forces of exceptional leadership are desire, self-awareness and, most important, compassion. Effective leadership cannot prevail under negative circumstances such as putdowns, dishonesty, demands, frustration, denigration, manipulation, fear or micromanagement. These negative forces create high turnover, a lack of productivity, a lack of motivation and a negative attitude in those required to produce.

To be great, leaders must have the necessary empathy to inspire understanding and knowledge in team members. Empathy is key. Empathy begins with taking an understanding of life from the experience and perception of another. When empathy is present, defensiveness decreases and something positive replaces it. Empathy opens doors and removes confusion. It softens the minds and hearts of others. When people are open, this is exactly when the compassionate leader can be more creative in solving problems in ways that drive productivity and long-term success,” notes author Sherrie Campbell.

To follow are seven traits of compassionate leadership shared by Sherrie Campbell on Entrepreneur. com:

https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/310391

Future leaders stepping up to serve in the community

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Future leaders from a school in the London Borough of Havering in the UK showed true compassionate leadership by volunteering in the local community. They learnt so many life lessons by serving. The school had launched the first ever leadership development program, combining it with volunteering in the local community. The secondary school students served young people with autism, sacrificing their Saturdays to work with the most vulnerable sections of society. The students came along side these young people at an autism club in Romford in Havering in London, helping them in their creative skills, sports, dance, music, in partnership with a local church. It was so wonderful to see service to the community in action in such a vibrant way – they brought joy into the lives of the vulnerable.

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The paintings of these young people on the autism spectrum were displayed in the local council chamber, featured in community magazines and exhibited at an event in a local church to mark Autism Sunday – the international day of prayer for autism which takes place annually, on the second Sunday in February. People came from far and wide to see these creative works of art from the differently abled, including the local MP, the Mayor and local Councillors. The students played a huge role in the ‘Step Up to Serve’ campaign, launched by one of the British charities under patronage of Prince Charles, the Prince of Wales – they were an integral part of the #IWill campaign set up with the intention of helping young people into volunteering in their communities.

Serving the local community made a huge impact on the lives of these future leaders. When they left school and went on to follow University degrees in the United Kingdom,  they actually wrote about their experience in research papers, threw themselves into University Autism Clubs and went on to serve even more in other local communities. They displayed compassionate leadership by reaching out in love to young people with autism in the UK.